It all started with a bucket of water.
On a Saturday morning, my dad called a meeting with my sister and me. I was 8 years old at the time. I had a gut-wrenching feeling that something was wrong because our family didn’t usually come together at the dinner table like this.
“Your mom and I are getting a divorce…I’m so sorry. But…here’s a lesson I want you to keep with you: relationships are like flowers, and if you don’t water them, they’ll die.”
I was confused at how my parents had come to that conclusion so nonchalantly.
Asking my dad this question triggered my quest for answers on how to help couples water their relationships in practical ways.
Hi, I’m Sayuri.
I’m a Relationship Coach who helps purpose-driven couples transform from feeling distant, frustrated, and like passing ships in the night to feeling loved, supported, and working together as a team.
People come to me hoping they can…
Find a fair way to distribute household responsibilities with their partner
Get on the same page with important life decisions
Reignite the romantic spark they felt at the beginning of their relationship
Feel like they’re a team—cheering, supporting, and prioritizing each other’s dreams
Break out of the mundane day-to-day routine and experience more joyful, adventurous, and energizing moments together
I'm here to tell you it's possible. I've seen these hopes come to life for my clients.
They’re able to feel as alive in their relationships as they do in their work. They navigate life’s domains with peace and confidence, knowing they’ve bulletproofed their relationships.
They open themselves to showing up in their relationships at more meaningful levels. And I guide them with my systems, strategies, and skills.
Friend, deep down, you know that passing ships in the night was not the relationship you signed up for.
Perhaps you want to build a successful business, but you want your partner to join you on this wild journey, supporting you along the way.
Or maybe your partner works outside the home while you stay with the kids—but you still want your family to stay united and create precious memories together.
For you, it’s not just about your happiness. It’s about your integrity. Knowing you’re showing up in your relationships with those who matter most—your partner and kids—in alignment with how your clients, social media followers, and community perceive you.
Because you know that at the end of your life, no career accolades could compare to the fulfillment, joy, and meaning of having those who matter most by your side.
That’s my hope, too.
But my career won’t come at the expense of being a present wife, mom, and homemaker.
I started You & Me Time® when I was a sophomore in college. As soon as God gave me the idea for this business, I felt a huge responsibility to steward this calling.
So, I prayed for a mentor who would be a life example of someone with a fruitful life. Since I was pursuing entrepreneurship, I specifically prayed for someone successful in business, marriage, and family life. As the saying goes, “Find someone that is where you want to be, then follow their steps.”
S. Truett Cathy, the founder of Chick-fil-A, Inc., was my model of real success. So I prayed, picked up the phone on a Monday morning, and called the Chick-fil-A headquarters.
Three months later, Truett invited me to visit him in person. I had the opportunity not only to share my plans for You & Me Time® but also to receive his mentorship. I absorbed his wisdom like a sponge, read his books, and was introduced to his board of advisors, who also mentored me in marketing, leadership, and the “my pleasure” second-mile service Chick-fil-A® is well known for.
Even though I’ve always been a highly driven career woman, I recognized that my drive couldn’t cost me the people I love. I knew where that had led my parents, and I promised myself that I’d do everything in my power so my kids wouldn’t have to go through what I did in my childhood.
Feeling safe at home, having the love of my kids, and being supported by my husband would be my secret weapon to stay grounded, consistent, and persevere through the challenges that come with building a business.
As I was learning from Truett, I was growing my confidence in building You & Me Time®. As long as I was clear about my why, my values, and my priorities, I didn’t have to fear that my career would cost me the relationships that mattered most.
“We live in a changing world, but we need to be reminded that the important things have not changed, and the important things will not change if we keep our priorities in proper order.” - S. Truett Cathy
Many people sacrifice their family for their career when their family could actually be the safe environment where they’re cared for, protected, and propelled to do their life’s work.
Before I knew it, I began to help business leaders strengthen their marriages and show them how they could maximize their time together by turning it into You & Me Time® date-night experiences.
And today, I’m helping people like you have solid relationships that not only improve your immune system but also make you feel alive, joyful, and fulfilled.
As I was planning You & Me Time® for business leaders, I found my zone of genius.
The people I was serving were overcommitted, overstretched, and burnt out. While they loved the experiences I was planning for them, the reality was that the next day they’d go back to the hustle and grind.
I knew a one-time date-night experience was not going to sustain a long-lasting relationship.
So, I fused my skills in creating systems, organization, and strategic planning with my training in Relationship Coaching—so that I can equip my couples with practical ways to water their relationship with the time they already have.
I’d found my gift.
Building close relationships with the people I felt called to serve allowed me to be in tune with what they really need and find ways to meet them where they’re at.
Over the past 10 years, I’ve helped people from all walks of life turn their relationships around and gain back their partner as their best friend.
The people I serve have an open heart and mind, and a willingness to rise up as the leader of their life.
I help them see new possibilities and show them that their happily ever after is more than possible.
And I can help you do the same.
I show purpose-driven couples like you how to transform your relationship—even if one partner is unwilling to change—and go from feeling distant, frustrated, and like passing ships in the night to feeling loved, supported, and working together as a team.
If you've been looking to reduce the tension with your partner, bring back the harmony, joy, and love into your home, I invite you to explore my program, Tag Team Effect here.
Sayuri’s Bio
Sayuri Chacon is a Relationship Coach trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy. She graduated from Nova Southeastern University with a degree in Entrepreneurship and Marketing. By fusing her business background and relationship coaching training, she found her zone of genius.
Her signature program, The Tag Team Effect, equips purpose-driven couples with the systems, strategies, and skills to share the load fairly and create space to care for their relationship.
She’s helped celebrities, top CEOs, and executives from leading financial companies strengthen their relationships. Through the creation of her You & Me Time® Connection Cards, she’s helping people spark meaningful conversations one card at a time.
Coming from a family of entrepreneurs, and as a business owner, trained coach, wife, and mom herself, she fully understands the real-life struggles families face today while juggling work, parenting, and relationships.
Sayuri lives in Minneola, FL, with her husband, two kids, and furbaby.
