It all started with a bucket of water.
On a Saturday morning, my dad called for a meeting with my sister and I. I was 8 years old at that time. I had this gut-wrenching feeling that something had happened because our family didn’t just come together at the dinner table.
“Your mom and I are getting a divorce…I’m so sorry. But…here’s a lesson I want you to keep with you, Relationships are like flowers, and if you don’t water them, they’ll die.”
I was confused at how my parents had come to that conclusion so nonchalantly.
Asking my dad this question triggered my quest for answers to help couples water their relationship in a practical way.
Hi, I’m Sayuri
I’m a Relationship Coach who helps highly driven business owners, entrepreneurs, and professionals go from distant, frustrated, and passing ships in the night to loved-up, supported, and working together as a team.
People come to me hoping they can…
Find a fair way to distribute the household responsibilities with their partner
Get on the same page with important life decisions
Reignite the romantic spark they felt at the beginning of their relationship
Feel like they’re a team—cheering, supporting, and prioritizing each other’s dreams
Break out of the mundane day-to-day routine, and experience more joyful, adventurous, and energizing moments together
I'm here to tell you it's possible. I've seen these hopes come to life for my clients.
They’re able to feel as alive in their relationship as they are in their work. They navigate life’s domains with inner peace and confidence knowing they’ve bulletproofed their relationship.
They open themselves to showing up in their relationship at more meaningful levels. And, I guide them with my relationship skills, strategies, and systems.
Friend, you know deep down, that passing ships in the night was not the relationship you signed up for.
Perhaps you want to build a successful business, but you want your partner to go on this wild journey with you, supporting you in the process.
Or maybe your partner is working outside of the home while you stay home with the kids—but you still want the family to stay united and make precious memories together.
For you, it’s not just about you being happy. It’s about your integrity. Knowing you’re showing up in your relationships with those who matter most—your partner and kids—in alignment with how your clients, social media followers, and community perceive you.
Because you know that at the end of your life, no career accolades could amount to the fulfillment, joy, and meaning you feel of having those who matter most by your side.
That was my hope, too.
But my career won’t come at the expense of being a present wife, mom, and homemaker.
I started You & Me Time®, when I was a sophomore in college. As soon as God gave me the idea for this business, I felt a huge responsibility to steward this calling.
So I prayed for a mentor that would be my life example of someone that had a fruitful life. Since I was pursuing entrepreneurship, I specifically prayed for someone that was successful in business, but also in marriage and family life. As the saying goes, “Find someone that is where you want to be, then follow their steps.”
S. Truett Cathy, the founder of Chick-fil-A, Inc., was my model of real success. So I prayed, picked up the phone on a Monday morning, and called the Chick-fil-A, headquarters.
That same month, Truett invited me in to visit him in person. had the opportunity of not only share with him my plans with You & Me Time®, but receive his personal mentorship. I absorbed his wisdom like a sponge. I read his books. And, I was introduced to his board of advisors that also mentored me in marketing, leadership, and the “my pleasure” second mile service Chick-fil-A is well known for.
Even though I’ve always been a highly driven career woman, I recognized that my drive can’t cost me the people I love. I knew where that had led my parents and I promised myself that I’d do everything in my power so my daughter and future kids won’t have to go through my childhood.
Feeling safe at home, having the love of my daughter, and being supported by my husband, that’d be my secret weapon to stay grounded, consistent, and persevere the challenges that come with building a business.
As I was learning from Truett, I was growing my confidence in building You & Me Time.® As long as I was clear about my why, my values, and my priorities, I didn’t have to fear my career would cost me the relationships that mattered most.
“We live in a changing world, but we need to be reminded that the important things have not changed, and the important things will not change if we keep our priorities in proper order.” - S. Truett Cathy
Many people sacrifice their family for their career, when their family could actually be the safe environment where they’re cared for, protected, and propelled to do their life’s-work.
Before I knew it, I began to help business leaders strengthen their marriage and show them how they can maximize their time together by turning it into You & Me Time date-night experiences.
And today, I’m helping amazing people have a solid love-relationship that not only improves their immune system, but makes them feel alive, joy, and fulfilled.
As I was planning You & Me Time® for business leaders, I found my zone of genius.
The people I was serving were overcommitted, overstretched, and burnt out. While they loved the experiences I was planning for them, the reality is that the next day they’d go back on the hustle and grind.
I knew a one-time date-night experience was not going to sustain a long lasting relationship.
So I fuse my skills in creating systems, organization, and strategic planning with my training in Relationship Coaching—so that I can equip my couples with more practical ways they can water their relationship with the time they already have.
I’d found My Gift.
Having built close relationships with the people I felt called to serve, allowed me to be in tune with what they really need and found ways to meet their needs where they’re at.
Over the past 10 years, I’ve been able to help people from all walks of life turn their relationship around and gain back their partner as their best friend.
They bring an open heart and willingness to rise up as the leader of their life.
I help them see new possibilities and finally see how their happily ever after is actually more than possible.
And I can help you do the same.
I show highly ambitious woman like you transform your relationship—even if your partner is unwilling to change—and how to go from distant, frustrated, and passing ships in the night to loved up, supported, and working together as a team.
If you've been looking to reduce the tension with your partner, bring back the harmony, joy, and love into your home, I invite you to explore my program, Effortless Love here.
Sayuri’s Bio
Sayuri Chacon is a Relationship Coach trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy. She graduated from Nova Southeastern University with a degree in Entrepreneurship and Marketing. And, fusing her business background and relationship coaching training, she found her zone of genius.
Her signature program, Effortless Love, comes down to equipping women with the skills to gain the support they need from their partner, distribute the load fairly at home, and bring the fun into their relationship.
She’s helped celebrities and executives from top financial companies strengthen their love-relationship. And, through the creation of her You & Me Time® Connection Cards—she’s helping people spark meaningful conversations one card at a time.
Coming from a family of entrepreneurs, and as a business owner, trained coach, wife, and mom herself, she fully understands the real-life struggles families are facing today while they juggle their work, parenting, and relationship.
Sayuri lives in Coconut Creek, FL, with her husband, baby girl, and furbaby.
